tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post3528276593883806085..comments2024-01-26T05:21:36.865-08:00Comments on Motherscribe: Because that is the art of blogging...JCKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04582581376724478366noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-84328193893204829512008-08-03T09:49:00.000-07:002008-08-03T09:49:00.000-07:00Okay, first off, as someone who dealt with inferti...Okay, first off, as someone who dealt with infertility, that painting is disturbing and powerful. I must say it brought back the stress and anger I felt at my own body. THAT- my dear friend, is what you do, whether it be in a painting or a poem or a post about poop - you make people FEEL something. That's what it is all about. Putting rules on artistic expression of any kind is bullshit. Don't change a thing.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13164420416881517854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-3810322185433589892008-07-31T13:47:00.000-07:002008-07-31T13:47:00.000-07:00Well, shit. I missed that session and I'm glad, o...Well, shit. I missed that session and I'm glad, or I'd have to quit blogging all together!A Mom Two Boyshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14488177415635805201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-88321918328809213492008-07-29T18:31:00.000-07:002008-07-29T18:31:00.000-07:00I agree with you, Jennifer. We're all blogging fo...I agree with you, Jennifer. We're all blogging for ourselves; otherwise, why bother? If someone's rules are useful to you, fine. If not, forget them. By the way, I think the infertility painting is incredible. It plays into something I was just writing in the novel I'm working on -- realizing that describing or recreating menstruation is just not done. Well, to hell with that, too. -- RuthRuthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10099243038470585805noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-56597233626044182122008-07-27T06:41:00.000-07:002008-07-27T06:41:00.000-07:00I found you through another attendee's post about ...I found you through another attendee's post about the BlogHer Conference. After reading several "reviews" of the conference by people who have my respect and admiration, I'm not so sure what BlogHer is about and who it is for. <BR/><BR/>When I started my blog, it was just for me; my way to say what I wanted, when I wanted and as part of my process to work things out in my mind. It never even occurred to me that people might read it. Not that tons of people do, but I have a small loyal following of people who have become treasured blogger friends. I will probably never get 50 comments, or even 20. I will never have ad people seeking me out. I will never be known as a "mommy blogger," I will never be the subject of a TV morning show/magazine interview, and I most definitely will probably NEVER be the type of blogger that the powers that be at BlogHer are targeting. I post everyday (usually), 300 words would be my title only, and I will never write what somebody thinks others want to read. I am selfish, and my blog is all about what I want. <BR/><BR/>There are a few "commercial" blogs that I read; when I first started reading them, they were not that way--but turned out that way. And that's fine. To each their own. If it bothered me too much, I'd just stop reading. If a person wants their blog to be a business, that is an option. If a person doesn't, that's an option, too. Or even something in between. Whatever. As far as YOUR blog goes, I personally LOVE, LOVE, LOVE what I have read so far and intend to put you on my list of "must stalks." :) -- I jest, about the stalking. I will be checking in everyday, though--and commenting when it's right. Hope you don't mind.<BR/><BR/>See why 300 words would NEVER work for me? :)kim-dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11650811256788756378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-45986600592789691652008-07-26T23:50:00.000-07:002008-07-26T23:50:00.000-07:00So glad you've written this - I think you were...So glad you've written this - I think you were in the same session I was, when the speaker called posting everyday "Bullshit." It completely deflated me.<BR/><BR/>I think I might be ready to address that...It's been hard; I wanted BlogHer to be amazing & inspiring.<BR/><BR/>You. Are brilliant.<BR/><BR/>Rock on.stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04257126641387033673noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-64389328110287521852008-07-26T20:19:00.000-07:002008-07-26T20:19:00.000-07:00Blog is like a diary to me...a record of my emotio...Blog is like a diary to me...a record of my emotions, thoughts and experiences at the very moment...<BR/><BR/>if I had to write to suit the taste of others so that I could get more readers, I'll rather not have them as my readers....<BR/><BR/>MY Blog is mine...I write it the way I like it to be...isn't that true? That's what make all of us unique isn't it? And we draw people who are 'like us' to come to this space of ours to share and comment...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-23063088477327368782008-07-26T16:46:00.000-07:002008-07-26T16:46:00.000-07:00I look at Blogher like an all you can eat buffet. ...I look at Blogher like an all you can eat buffet. Just because the food is there does not mean you have to eat it. Choose what works for you. If you like the bling bling desserts and coffee and commercialized food - run with it! If you want home grown fruit and grain bread only, do that. As for me, I am struggling as well. I write for pay, but what I write I believe in. And if I could have more sponsors I might. Not because I'm a sell out, but because I like being home with my babies. Having sponsors doesn't always mean you're less real. Even famous artists had patrons. Didn't make their art less impactful. Nice blog.Andrea Frazerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14293267612840259503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-55829284056644276342008-07-25T21:54:00.000-07:002008-07-25T21:54:00.000-07:00I'm truly enjoying your blog and so enjoyed meetin...I'm truly enjoying your blog and so enjoyed meeting you at Blogher. Funny how we kept bumping into each other; there must be a reason.<BR/><BR/>I know what you mean about having more questions than answers about this whole blogging thing. But, I feel like you're right on when you say you'll do what feel right for you; you've a great voice and I know I'll be back for more!<BR/><BR/>kateCaShThoMahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10129301440408677792noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-9445922252360252862008-07-25T21:01:00.000-07:002008-07-25T21:01:00.000-07:00While it is always good to want to grow and impro...While it is always good to want to grow and improve your writing it is still YOUR writing. You get to decide which sugestions will make your writing stronger and which will kill you slowly.<BR/>I've pondered these questions a lot and come to the conclusion that my writing makes me happy and right now that is all that matters.happygeekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14554736584093276751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-54991720076073192362008-07-25T16:50:00.000-07:002008-07-25T16:50:00.000-07:00I read blogs for the author's unique voice...not b...I read blogs for the author's unique voice...not because their posts are less than 300 words or have a "focus."<BR/><BR/>I'm glad you are who you are. Stay that way.San Diego Mommahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12624915698900874371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-9110575485635682522008-07-25T15:07:00.000-07:002008-07-25T15:07:00.000-07:00If you can't blog the way you want there's no poin...If you can't blog the way you want there's no point in blogging at all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-44251031076341604102008-07-25T12:01:00.000-07:002008-07-25T12:01:00.000-07:00If you focus on one thing in your blog then what d...If you focus on one thing in your blog then what do you do with all the other stuff of your life? I have a very long list of blogs that I read and they can easily be divided into two catagories. <BR/><BR/>There are the ones I read because they are focused on things that I like, or things I find funny, or something that caught my attention and provided a temporary obsession to keep my mind off of things I should be doing. Whatever the reason, I will read a blog with specific focus until I'm bored with the subject then I take it off of my list... or if it's really well written I'll check in every couple of weeks. <BR/><BR/>Then there are the blogs that I read every day. These are blogs about PEOPLE not about things. They are about LIFE not the elements of living. They are written by unique writers with an idividual voice that literally leaps from the screen to tell me stories about what's really important. To qualify as a blog that is worthy of reading every day it must have depth and color and movement. It must make me think, and laugh, and cry. <BR/><BR/>My standards are high... not even my own blog qualifies... but you are on that second list. Take what you learned at blogher and bend it to your purposes.. it's nothing more than a tool. You are the artist.Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17319951305724993484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-90934187731740102392008-07-25T11:58:00.000-07:002008-07-25T11:58:00.000-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17319951305724993484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-15090981828940239512008-07-25T11:44:00.000-07:002008-07-25T11:44:00.000-07:00exactly what jenn h said...exactly.exactly what jenn h said...exactly.flutterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11828689769747130419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-20292552194870423362008-07-25T10:50:00.000-07:002008-07-25T10:50:00.000-07:00I understand that those are just guidelines for ne...I understand that those are just guidelines for newer bloggers or bloggers looking to boost readership or whatever. But I also think they will stifle some very creative writers. I think most of us blog for us. Those that blog for others are more obvious as far as I am concerned. I don't read them as much, and I certainly don't comment very often.<BR/><BR/>KEEP BELIEVINGAngie @ KEEP BELIEVINGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00930977696454848345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-37433993441521395612008-07-25T10:23:00.000-07:002008-07-25T10:23:00.000-07:00Well, I'm struggling with that too - enjoying my w...Well, I'm struggling with that too - enjoying my writing for what it is, but also looking at that "Comments - 0" and feeling disappointed.<BR/><BR/>Whenever I read about "building a readership" I have mixed feelings, that its gimmicks. But then I participate, and visit someone else, or someone visits me, and it seems like so much fun.<BR/><BR/>OTOH, it was you, JCK, who told me when we met that blogging was like journaling, like "Morning pages" - and that made so much sense to me.<BR/><BR/>I did keep a journal when I was quite young, and its been almost thirty years between my last written journal and starting my blog. This feels create and fun and fullfilling, just like journaling did. Should it matter that anyone is reading it? I'm not sure.<BR/><BR/>Your painting - wow! that's such a powerful and brave and revealing expression.<BR/><BR/>The other thing I wonder about is my tendancy to hold back too much when writing, to write at a distance, to be too detached. Your painting certainly isn't detached! It's wonderful!Glennishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03681336164718681936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-87451373626466335652008-07-25T09:59:00.000-07:002008-07-25T09:59:00.000-07:00Here, here!! My gut tells me this every time I ve...Here, here!! My gut tells me this every time I venture out to those blogs with massive readership or when I read tips on "taking over the blogosphere"...ICK! I like to spend my time with people whose voices ring true and honest - not always coherent - but always honest.<BR/><BR/>My blog started out being just for me, as a creative outlet and for a way to journal my life, shared only with a select few. But then I discovered all these online communities and started enjoying the shared experiences...but it's a slippery slope! When I write FOR others, self-doubt slips in and I freeze. My writing has definitely changed in the two years since I first started blogging. I'm less personal, more guarded, more concerned with keeping up with what others are doing and saying...<BR/><BR/>I very much admire and appreciate those of you who really put yourselves out there. You have such a strong sense of self and you connect to your readers on a very personal level. I think that's an amazing quality. There's no cookie-cutter formula for that.Moxy Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18087357824067282441noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-60151773073000144442008-07-25T09:17:00.000-07:002008-07-25T09:17:00.000-07:00Oops. Should read title of painting before postin...Oops. Should read title of painting before posting about snorts. <BR/><BR/>Will clarify snort: referring to feeling about mine own anatomy at moment.shrink on the couchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13271891110211081990noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-66970348177505429582008-07-25T09:13:00.000-07:002008-07-25T09:13:00.000-07:00Ok, first, that painting is priceless and brought ...Ok, first, that painting is priceless and brought forth the biggest snort of the week. Yeah, I know exactly how you feel, focus or no focus. <BR/><BR/>And yeah, I need focus too. But it feels like trying to fasten a rubber band around a handful of jello. <BR/><BR/>Celebrate focus-free!shrink on the couchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13271891110211081990noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-90420106247712506112008-07-25T08:37:00.000-07:002008-07-25T08:37:00.000-07:00I agree...ya gotta write for you, and what you kno...I agree...ya gotta write for you, and what you know about, and what you feel and think. Otherwise, it IS kind of pandering, isn't it? <BR/><BR/>Just like in person, people want to know you for you, not for who you pretend to be.<BR/><BR/>And the painting. At first I was like "What the hell?" But then I saw that you painted it and I thought about what you've been through and it completely makes sense. And just like blogging, you have to paint what you feel and who you are. Thanks for sharing that piece of you.Jason, as himselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16630210317307544165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-21619996804500418622008-07-25T08:32:00.000-07:002008-07-25T08:32:00.000-07:00I think you should just be yourself. Write about ...I think you should just be yourself. Write about what is important to you and say what you want to say. People will want to read it!~Swankymamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15297775214113910370noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-87475640069862238922008-07-25T08:20:00.000-07:002008-07-25T08:20:00.000-07:00I'm with you! I started blogging to write about th...I'm with you! I started blogging to write about things important to me. I continue to do that - it's my way of voicing joys and frustrations that I might not be able to do vocally. Do I want more readers? Yes, cause I'm human and I want to be adored by many. But I'm not giving up the joy I get from doing it my way for a couple of compliments:)<BR/><BR/>Stick to your convictions girl!Mary Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14236441806234261588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-42081763748604697052008-07-25T07:05:00.000-07:002008-07-25T07:05:00.000-07:00300 words--I am in T-R-O-U-B-L-E ;)Your blog is pe...300 words--I am in T-R-O-U-B-L-E ;)<BR/><BR/>Your blog is perfect and has a voice, you. Don't change a thing!Miss Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15430066224876012848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-43290088417368528362008-07-25T06:01:00.000-07:002008-07-25T06:01:00.000-07:00Since I don't have ads and shun all the buttons an...Since I don't have ads and shun all the buttons and bling on my blog, I'm pretty sure you know where I sit on this issue.<BR/><BR/>I don't think there is a right or wrong answer. I think you hit the nail on the head that it should be a blog about what *you* want. Otherwise, I don't think it is very authentic.QThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15544956727530046973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3271931822987740572.post-45699558882154483942008-07-25T05:16:00.000-07:002008-07-25T05:16:00.000-07:00I don't have ads, I don't have sponsors. Primaril...I don't have ads, I don't have sponsors. Primarily because I don't have the readers to warrant either. Maybe if I followed the rules, I would or could. Right now, it's just a place for me.<BR/><BR/>We define ourselves.<BR/><BR/>It must be said; that painting is giving me a lot to think about.Manic Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02397835927560496425noreply@blogger.com